They say,
"Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me"
that saying couldn’t be more wrong. Words can hurt very much especially when
they are coming from a place of hate; words have a way of sticking to you like
super glue they can flash before you even when you don’t want them. Hurtful
words are toxic they slowly spread until they infect everything. Words are our
most dangerous weapon. No-one has the right to judge anyone based on anything.
No one likes been told about their flaws. You have no idea what other people go
through you don't know there burdens, fears, or feelings. What you say might
just push them over the edge. What you take as playing are daggers to the heart
to another. No-one is perfect everyone has flaws everyone is different, and
those differences are what makes us beautiful, one of kind. The key is to
accept yourself, learn to love yourself, and when you do, what others say can't
affect you. People will always have something to say, no matter what you do,
say, or dress someone will always have something to say. You can't spend your
life dwelling on what others think. Life is way too short to be worried about what other people think. If you want to change something
about yourself than do it, but do it for you. Don't do it to fit in. Don't do
it to impress that guy you've liked since 6th grade. Don't do it to impress the
girl across the street. Don't do it to make your family happy. Do it because
it's what YOU want, because it's going to make YOU happy. If you change for
other people rather than for yourself, than you're always going to be changing.
If someone wants you to change, you're better without them in your life. Surround
yourself with people who pick you up and avoid the ones that want to keep you
down. Surround yourself with people that love you, ALL of YOU! This makes me sound like I never get upset about what people say about me, but I still do at times. I'm learning to ignore them, trust me since I started ignoring them I am much, much happier. So please be careful with what you say, because words can only be forgiven, not forgotten.
Isamar
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