Some wounds never heal.

Relationships come and go fall into place and some fall apart. I'm not only talking about personal relationships I'm talking about all relationships. As we, all know friendships are the easiest to make but also the easiest to break. Family relationships well those are trickier. Family ties are harder to break given that family ties are the one strand of relationships that we should always fight for.  Relationships’ are tricky their maze after maze with some bobby trap always around the corner. The thing about relationships is that they're based on feelings and feelings are vulnerable. Egos, hearts, and trust are all on the line with relationships. Sure, it's a beautiful thing to have, there’s nothing like having a connection with someone else that understands you, someone that cares and truly loves you. However, what happens when someone in the relationship, hurts you to the point of no return? What happens when one of the only people you trusted is the one that broke your heart? Friendships and personal relationships are in perspective to family ties easier to let go. Friends well you can make one at the end of every corner. Boyfriends, girlfriends there’s always someone out there willing to love you. But family relationships, well those are the permanent ones. Those are the ones that cut deep when you've been hurt. Specifically because family are, the ones you think will always have your back. Now I'm not saying all family is like this, on the contrary I have seen families that closer than two super glued fingers. However have also seen some families that get torn because one person decided to turn their back on the only people that will love them unconditionally, and forever may I add. Those wounds close but never fully heal. So what do you do when that happens? Who knows! There is no answer on how to deal with a family relationship that goes south. There is no way to fully cope with the sting of betrayal from family. One thing however is certain, no matter how much it hurts, hoe much you've been hurt or how much you've hurt that love never goes away. You can try to lie to yourself that you throw in the towel and that you no longer care what happens to that person. And in reality you never stop caring, worrying, wondering, or loving them. Some love never disappears you simply put a sheet over it and place it in the back of the room. But it's there and it will always be there. The only thing I am certain in is that we should forgive. No not the reason, or the way the betrayal made you feel, but forgive for yourself. Let it go, because if that person can be strong enough to hurt you and not think twice about it than you be strong enough to forgive them for their deceit. If you hold on to all that anger, and hate what's going to happen? Is the other person going to be the one suffering or you? You are. By holding on to that grudge, all you’re doing is poisoning your heart, and by doing that, your letting the other person hurt you with your own hands. There is nothing easy about failed friendships, love relationships, or family relationships they all hurt and cut deep. All you can do is say your peace, wish them all the luck in the world, and move on no matter how much every step hurts. But it still stands, some wounds never heal.

                   Isamar